给未来孩子的一封信英文版（通用3篇）
Dear son ,As your future father, i have the obligation to have you know something. Perhaps you are to complain that I am setting fence for you. Whereas, i sincerely hope you can taste it word by word thoroughly.
When you come across this letter in some corner of our house, i hope you are very at the age of 12.For everything i will tell you below is what you are bound to experience during this period. Firstly, i hope you do not have to go school too early. Thus you can have your childhood passed in a natural environment. You learn how to walk and speak naturally. Then you begin to realize tie world around you at your own view. Of course, i will also give you some constructive suggestions. Yet i will not disturb your standpoint. You can have your own imagination to picture the world. You can describe a twittering bird as a naughty elf, the flowing cloud as the belt of the God, and the rainy day as tie God being watering his garden. Just go ahead as whatever you think. You can be a little out of control, just running around Next, when it is time for you to attend school, i hope you will go for it to your fullest willing, expecting to meet more interesting fellows and explore more unknown things. I also wish you could come across a reasonable teacher. She would not limit you only to learn well. Instead, she would try her best to spur yourdesiration for the knowledge of book and induce you how to apply them in reality. The teacher would also inform you of how to be a social man, behaving properly in public. Thirdly, it is my turn to be involved a little in your spare time. I will get you discover the fantasy of sport. As a boy,it will help you a lot not only to build a healthy figure but also to strengthen your own personality. the world as you wish.
That is all that i want to say to you. May you have a happy childhood as my son.
Yours lovingly
Father
Dear Cutie-Pie,
我的宝贝小甜心：
Recently, your mother and I were searching for an answer on Google. Halfway through entering the question, Google returned a list of the most popular searches in the world. Perched at the top of the list was "How to keep him interested."
最近我和你妈妈准备在谷歌上搜一个答案。还没输完整个问题，谷歌就显示了一列世界上最常见的搜索。其中排在第一的是“怎么能让他一直对我感兴趣”。
It startled me. I scanned several of the countless articles about how to be sexy and sexual, when to bring him a beer versus a sandwich, and the ways to make him feel smart and superior.
这让我有点震惊。我浏览了无数相关的论文，这些文章都是关于女孩如何性感保持美丽，什么时候给他送上一杯啤酒和三明治，以及如何让他觉得聪明和有优越感。
And I got angry.
我怒了。
Little One, it is not, has never been, and never will be your job to "keep him interested."
亲爱的宝贝，你从来，完全都不需要，“让他一直对你感兴趣。”
Little One, your only task is to know deeply in your soul -- in that unshakeable place that isn't rattled by rejection and loss and ego -- that you are worthy of interest. (If you can remember that everyone else is worthy of interest also, the battle of your life will be mostly won. But that is a letter for another day.)
亲爱的，你唯一的任务就是不断去了解自己的灵魂——你不该让拒绝、失去和自我占据那个不可撼动的领域——这样你才值得被喜欢。(如果你还能知道每个人都值得被喜欢，那么你的人生已经基本赢了。改天我会在另一封信里再写这部分。)
If you can trust your worth in this way, you will be attractive in the most important sense of the word: you will attract a boy who is both capable of interest and who wants to spend his one life investing all of his interest in you.
如果你相信自己的.价值，那么你的魅力就能用最重要的这句话来形容：你会吸引有能力去爱你同时也想花一辈子时间好好爱你的男生。
Little One, I want to tell you about the boy who doesn't need to be kept interested, because he knows you are interesting.
亲爱的，我想告诉你，不用刻意在男生面前保持新鲜感，他会知道你的好和魅力所在。
I don't care if he puts his elbows on the dinner table -- as long as he puts his eyes on the way your nose scrunches when you smile. And then can't stop looking.
我不介意他吃饭时会不会把手放桌子上——只要他会把注意力放在你身上，哪怕你大笑时鼻子都发出了怪声，还是止不住的一直看着你。
I don't care if he can't play a bit of golf with me -- as long as he can play with the children you give him and revel in all the glorious and frustrating ways they are just like you.
我不介意他不会陪我打高尔夫——只要他能和孩子们玩得开心，并且陶醉于孩子们和你是多么地相像。
I don't care if he doesn't follow his wallet -- as long as he follows his heart and it always leads him back to you.
我不介意他忘带钱包——只要他全心爱你如初，一直不离不弃。
I don't care if he is strong -- as long as he gives you the space to exercise the strength that is in your heart.
我不介意他是不是强壮——只要他能够给你足够空间，让你去不断锻炼内心的力量。
I couldn't care less how he votes -- as long as he wakes up every morning and daily elects you to a place of honor in your home and a place of reverence in his heart.
我一点也不关心他为谁投票——只要他每天早上醒来，都能把你“选”为家里的荣耀和他心中的女神。
I don't care about the color of his skin -- as long as he paints the canvas of your lives withbrushstrokes of patience, and sacrifice, and vulnerability, and tenderness.
我不介意他的肤色——只要他能用耐心、牺牲、奉献和温柔的笔触在你人生的画布上尽情挥绘。
I don't care if he was raised in this religion or that religion or no religion -- as long as he was raised to value the sacred and to know every moment of life, and every moment of life with you, is deeply sacred.
我不介意他是否有宗教信仰——只要他从小到大都信仰神圣，也知道生命的每个时刻，和你在一起的每分钟，都是非常神圣的。
In the end, Little One, if you stumble across a man like that and he and I have nothing else in common, we will have the most important thing in common:
最后，亲爱的，如果你遇到了这样的男人，哪怕我和他完全没有共同点，我们都会有一个最重要的共通之处：
You.
那就是你。
Because in the end, Little One, the only thing you should have to do to "keep him interested" is to be you.
最后，亲爱的，想要让他一直爱你如初的话，你唯一需要做的就是做你自己。
Your eternally interested guy,
永远爱你的
Daddy
爸爸
Dear Little One,
I am pretty sure that you're already 16 years old when you've seen this letter. And we do hope that the important lesson I wrote in this letter could be helpful to your future life. After all, it's the important lesson that your dad and mum got from life before your birth.
Actually, what I am trying to say is you should always remember your dreams and try to stick to it as much as possible.
Yes, this sounds like an old cliché that retold by everybody again and again since primaryschool. But we do think the main reason for retelling it repeatly is actually most of people failed to stick to their dreams. So do us.
Recently, your mother and I were both worried about our future career very much. You know, sometimes, we can't see any possibility of being promoted within next 5 years, because we are in a rigid system. Meanwhile, ironically, we can barely find any other alternative choice for the current dilemma. This anxiety tortured us increasingly as time goes by. To be honest, I don't think I can fully devote myself to the occupation that I am engaged in, for I don't like it since university. And I am very much certain that I couldn't be one of the elites in my occupation without passion.
You must know that your parents are both engineers in energy sector, one that sounds high-tech, but actually is not. However, do you know that your father's dream was to be an architect? He showed a great interest and passion about the structure and space since childhood. For hundreds of thousands of times, he designed all sorts of dreamed houses in his mind. But, as you can see now, he'd failed to achieve that and became a mechanical engineer eventually.
One of your dad's friends is a structure engineer from UK. We'd met each other at Sydney andbecame a close friend afterwards. He is an extraordinary engineer in his field. I believe that it wouldn't be long for him to become an elite one, because I can clearly see his passion towards job when we talk about architecture issues. And that passion is something that I lost for a long time.
Life, in my mind, is like a voyage in the sea and dream is the compass on board. Hardly could a captain sail across the ocean successfully without a compass. And also, it could be a disaster for neglecting of the compass even if the captain has one. Therefore, it's true that we should realise the importance of having a dream in mind. But it's even more important to stick to the dream.
Soon, I believe that you are going to face an important choice in your life – What do you want to do in the future? Just remember to choose one occupation that you're passionate with. And we will support your decision no matter what you've chosen, for sure!
Your eternal fans,
Daddy